Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7190054
If you are merely around the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates the very fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you can't. Your hearing grows more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until they does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, according to what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your spouse is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic lack of simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and be sure your partner knows that you love her or him and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.