Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play8448867
Whether you are merely around the fringes from the bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly having a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can go with the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs seen in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which can be similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your lover is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your partner up as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure to not cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest listing of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end to what you can do.