Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2645706
If you are merely about the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates the very fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play For many, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the one hand, you can opt for the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic lack of simply being capable of touch himself or herself or you, tying your spouse up like an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, our bodies loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest listing of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as the imagination. If you play it safe, and be sure your partner recognizes that you love them and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to what you can do.