Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7354861
If you are merely on the fringes of the bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you can not. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap memory foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this type of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure to not cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the contrary will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest listing of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. If you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.